Food For Though From The Hollow Deck
Also, from the bridge, a cool look at todays tragic events in Iraq.
Taken together, they put ionto perspective, a bit of the world we share with others.

We have spoken to your mother. We know everything.
'We were told that it was normal and quite acceptable in the Jamaican culture for men to maintain several women at the same time. The message of the Jamaican-Canadian community leaders was that illegitimacy had no stigma in Jamaica, that fathers were not required to marry or support the mothers of the their children, and that we should not impose our value judgements upon the Jamaican-Canadians when policing the community.From here on, the discussion has evolved into an interesting discussion, found in the SC&A comments section, here.
"Fair enough," we thought with the open values of the time. Who are we to say that our cultural values are better than any others?
Thirty years later, as we look back and see generation after generation of fatherless young men running wild in the community, we should re-visit our collective decision that there is no downside to the Jamaican Matriarchal family culture.
The matriarchal structure is also one of economics. Girls, at almost if not every level of education in Jamaica outnumber and often outperform boys. I'll google some figures but the gender percentage at their university is alarming. In their communities the male role figures they have are, quite often, criminals or shady personages. These gangs are not recruiting women.Kateland, of The Last Amazon has a unique perspective- and that alone make her remarks substantive- and elegant. She asks us to dispel certain 'realities' we are sure of- and she may be right. Her remarks prove the conversation needs to be widened.
It is quite true that it is normal and "accepted" -- in so far as no one quite sees how to change it -- that children are born out of wedlock, and while sharing the same mother, may have different fathers. This is often glorified by Jamaican DJ's in their music.
Firstly, to characterize the recent gun violence in Toronto as the work of "Jamaican gangs" is far from accurate though I will acknowledge that Canadians find it far easier to blame violent crime in Canada on Jamaicans among us rather than look at the mote in our own eye. And if we can't blame the Jamaicans there are always the Americans and their guns.The Lost Budgie himself answers and addresses all these matters at length in the comments section. Some of his remarkd are spot on and others beg thoughtful consideration. Both Arethusa and Kateland offer up real insight. We would ask you to read all the comments. This is an excellent conversation whose relevence far exceeds the Toronto city limits.
Though among certain circles to pretend to be Jamaican is considered radical chic these days. I often pass Somali and Canadian black youths in the downtown who pretend to speak a Jamaican patois. Mostly they have heart failure when a middle aged white woman corrects their lingustic fobbles though at least I do have Jamaican citizenship. She also says, forcefully, I object to this characterization of Jamaican matriarchal families being the root cause of violent crime in Toronto. I don't see it as a Jamaican/Canadian problem but a societal problem in Canada. There are far more two parent Jamaican homes than not - even in Canada. Furthermore this idea that Jamaican society is based on the matriarchal society is absurd. Certainly single headed female homes are common among a certain sub-class of Jamaicans but I would not call it a cultural characteristic. My home is in the interior of the island. Crime even in Gimme-me-bit is explosive but mostly the rise in crime is the direct result of what Jamacians call "broke foreigners". Meaning those who were born in Jamaica but raised and schooled in Toronto, London, Manchester, New York and South Florida who have been deported from those countries for violent criminal behaviour and returned with absolutely no ties to the communities that they find themselves in other than a piece of paper.
When the Cold War abruptly ended, there was a euphoric if yet undefined expectation that our better selves would migrate into a new form of brotherhood. The arms race, the military industrial complex and defense technology industries would be transformed into mechanisms for the betterment of mankind. There would be miracle cures, miracle drugs, economic growth, and the world in general, would be a better place to live. We would face new challenges and strifes of course, but we would be better equipped to handle them, in kind, more humane way than the horrors of war known in the 20th century.
No, it didn't work out that way .
Now, let us pose a thought to consider: Should the American citizenship test ask the following questions?
"Do you believe that every individual has the right to believe or not believe as they see fit?"
"Do you believe in the right of individuals to renounce or change their beliefs?"
For most of us, those are questions hardly worth any serious thought.
Those questions have become very relevant now.
It is our belief the two points we raise have a lot to do with the world we live in now.
Societies have been immeasurably enriched by religion. Religion has helped define our laws and customs and religion has provided comfort and solace to individuals that no government ever could.
Equally, the same could be said for the irreligious. Secular thought has given us new ideas and torn down barriers. Secularism has been a substantial basis for our social safety nets and the freedom to be as non conformist as we wish to be.
Until now, religion and secularism in the west have coexisted and indeed, have thrived together. They have each benefited from essential truths they each bring to the table. There were and our tensions of course, but by and large, we have learned to live with our neighbors, irrespective of their beliefs.
The migration of Islam into the west and into western awareness has changed all that. The compacts shared by western societies have been changed.
It is an oversimplification to say a more visible and engaged Islam is responsible for all the ills we face. Nevertheless, the impact of Islam and Muslims cannot be discounted.
We do wish to make clear that we not attacking all Muslims nor am I attacking Islam, per se. We are posing certain questions and drawing conclusions based on what we all see and hear. Clearly, Muslims in general, are defined in ways beyond their own control.
In the post communist era, the secularists were presented with a bonus they could never have dreamed of. The liberation of Europe unleashed generations of peoples that had no real connection to religion. In the free western societies, religious affiliations and beliefs are part of our collective mosaic. Eastern Europeans were different. They were and are not bad people- they just came from a place where all religious affiliations were frowned upon and a society that made deliberate religious affiliation were a barrier to social acceptance.
Eastern Europeans are not necessarily atheists or agnostics. However, whatever their religious convictions are, they have, out of necessity, removed religion from their exterior lives. One friend of mine from Poland cannot fathom what a political candidate's religious beliefs have to do with the ability to serve as an elected official. In candor, I have a tough time answering that question.
In any case, the secularists in the west discovered a new faith of their own- Multiculturalism. Eastern Europeans were quick converts. Languages and customs unfamiliar to us and the initial overdosing on American culture quickly made Eastern Europeans rediscover their own heritage. They wanted to preserve that heritage in a pure a form as possible, forgetting at times that all things move forward and adapt.
The secularists, ever foes of the religious and the traditional, pounced on more conservative values, referring to those values as 'racist' and 'hateful.'
Multiculturalism, masquerading as righteousness, assaulted western values like bin Ladens call to Jihad.
To a true Multiculturalist, all is sacred and nothing is profane. Tolerance is transformed from appropriate and considered behavior into belief- the belief that all is equal. From moon worshipers to Jim Jones, all is equal in the eyes of the Multiculturalist. Secularists no longer have to present cogent and reasoned argument. They wave the religious icon of their beliefs and all must bow before the god(s) du jour. Religious people and those not so religious, but of more conservative values, yield to 'Judge not, lest ye be judged' and the values of decorous behavior. In other words, they resigned themselves into accepting the multiculturalist agenda. For the most part, they could simply ignore that agenda. Multiculturalism became an integral (and politically involved) part of the western societal fabric.
It is into this environment, Islam appeared in the west. The Islam we are exposed to forces us all to my earlier query.
Should the following questions be added to our citizenship exam?
"Do you believe that every individual has the right to believe or not believe as they see fit?"
"Do you believe in the right for individuals to renounce or change their beliefs?"
The answer to those questions affect us all. Whether or not you are religious, conservative, atheist, agnostic or a confirmed multiculturalist, the importance of the answer to these question will define our future.
In the world we live in, one of the freedoms we least acknowledge are property rights. In a war on terror, and with the goings on in Afghanistan and Iraq, what does this have to do with the likes of Osama bin Laden, Saddam Hussein and all the other despotic regimes out there?
Everything.
One of the underlying philosophies of these tyrants (like tyrants before them) is to deny the absolute right of ownership of anything. What you own is allowed by the grace of the leader. Deny him, and you may very well deny yourself of what you thought was yours. The threat of having what is yours suddenly taken away is an every day, ever present and powerful threat to human dignity.
That threat to human dignity is a rejection of plurality-- the notion that people can have different ideas and beliefs and still be secure in their rights and safety.
Americans and the west democracies defend that right and allow disparate views. Regardless of what we believe in, our dignity is our own and we remain free from the threat of being stripped of our property simply because our views aren't 'in line' with others. In other words, we live in an inclusive society.
It is this very notion, that we can exercise the greatest freedom of all, the freedom from fear, that has proven to be the greaest attractant to democracies. From the four corners of the world, immigrants have come to America and other democracies, with the knowledge- and not just the expectation- they would be free to exercise their voices in freedom.
The words of Emma Lazarus proved to be prophetic- It was the 'tired and poor,' and the 'wretched refuse,' that, when allowed to 'breathe free,' built the greatest country in the world- never to be beholden to the princes and priviledged.
Compare that with the regimes in most totalitarian countries. The mindset there is very different. They have constructed exclusive societies that demand loyalty and tolerate no dissent or difference of opinion. Decades of such indoctrination and the current tidal wave of hate taught in schools and preached from the pulpit have resulted in the marginalization and inevitable, if slow, decay of those societies.
Democracy is a threat simply because in a democracy, there is no 'us vs them' mentality-- at least not in the real sense. We understand that we can agree to disagree-- an inclusive society-- and need not threaten to take each other's dignity or property.
We respect each other's rights and we respect the freedom of dissent. 'Dissent is the truest form of patriotism', to paraphrase a Founding Father.
One needn't be a religious person or even believe in God to understand that tolerance is the lifeblood of civilized societies. If weren't so, none of us would be here. We accept and tolerate differences to accommodate trade between nations. We learned the hard way that we all suffer greatly when tolerance isn't applied accepted and applied equally. Centuries of wars and empires, death and destruction have reinforced that truth.
We live in a society that has lively political debate. We have an independent media and a judiciary that at times, has to remind us that there is a greater good than our needs and beliefs. That judiciary, while not perfect, is free and independent.
There is a distinction between an event and an experience. An event has a finite beginning and a finite end. An experience is different-- it stays with us and molds us and teaches us. We see the future through the eyes of of what can be, rather than through the eyes of what was.
Living in an open society is living an experience. We are not defined by particular events nor bogged down by our history (despite the attempts by some to do so). We move forward and thus, always, 'our best days are yet to come', elicits a universally understood response. We are building on what we have learned and looking forward to tomorrow.
Contrast these ideas with totalitarian regimes in the Middle East and elsewhere. They are bogged down by the past, reminding us and themselves of former glories while they waste away their present and future, going nowhere. A recent UN report on the state of education in the world placed the Arab countries at the bottom of the list, only above sub Saharan Africa in terms of quality of education. Given that there aren't that many schools in sub Saharan Africa to begin with, the distinction of not being at the bottom of the list is moot. Did that result in any outrage in Arab society? Hardly. It was ignored.
In totalitarian regimes, life is an orchestrated event, scripted by a government- lived until the death of the leader and new script is handed down.
One pundit wrote something to the effect that Arabs feel humiliated. Not because they can't read, have real no real economies and have to send their kids to the west to get educated-- that was no cause for shame, mind you-- but because they see themselves as victims of a conspiracy by the west to hold them back.
The response? A few months ago, Syria came out with it's new Five Year Plan. Remember those?
Plus ca change, plus ca reste la meme. These regimes are incapable of dealing with reality.
These regimes never accept blame or accountability. Abu Ghraib was met with outrage at the same time far greater horrors occur everyday at home. It is lost on much of the Arab world that we deal with our problems-- and they don't.
Why is it so? Well, these regimes and societies, in their hubris, see the world in an 'us vs them' framework, as was mentioned earlier. They never make mistakes and thus are never responsible or accountable. We, who live in democracies and commit to and demand, an always better society, are looked down upon-- after all, it is only we who make and correct our mistakes.
Thank God/Mother Earth/Supreme Architect/Elvis/(insert deity here/ that we aren't as perfect as they are.
Welcome to Toronto: where Jamaican gangs murder in public without fear of the police, and where citizens who know what's good for their families keep their eyes closed and their mouths shut.Is The Lost Budgie right?
Whether it's a daytime shooting in the park, night-time gunfights in the middle of the street or a simple contract murder of a rival drug dealer - the violence of Jamaican thugs has become a normal part of the Toronto landscape.
Why is it that such a tiny and identifiable segment of Toronto's population (3.2%) is responsible for so much of the violence, death and mayhem?
Culture is the Factor - Not Race
Even the politically correct mainstream media, politicians and leaders in the Black & Caribbean communities now readily acknowledge that a disproportionately high number of shooters and victims are of Jamaican heritage.
What is it about Jamaican values and culture that spawns so many violent young men? What is it about Jamaican values and culture that seems to prevent young Canadians of Jamaican heritage from successfully integrating into the Canadian mosaic, while countless other Caribbean immigrants thrive and do well in Canada?
A Culture Without Fathers
In the late 70's, members of the Jamaican-Canadian Association gave a lecture to Lost Budgie's recruit class at the Toronto Police College. The Jamaican Community leaders explained that the typical Jamaican family was matriarchal - with the mother as the head of the household. We were told that Jamaican morality does not require a woman to marry any of the fathers of her children, and that it is within the community's values if a woman has many children by different men: as long as she can name the fathers of the children.
We were told that it was normal and quite acceptable in the Jamaican culture for men to maintain several women at the same time. The message of the Jamaican-Canadian community leaders was that illegitimacy had no stigma in Jamaica, that fathers were not required to marry or support the mothers of the their children, and that we should not impose our value judgements upon the Jamaican-Canadians when policing the community.
"Fair enough," we thought with the open values of the time. Who are we to say that our cultural values are better than any others?
Thirty years later, as we look back and see generation after generation of fatherless young men running wild in the community, we should re-visit our collective decision that there is no downside to the Jamaican Matriarchal family culture.
Matriarchal Message to Young Men: "You are Not Needed"
Toronto Community leaders talk much about the need for "role models" for young men, but dance all around the question of generations of young Jamaican Canadians being raised without fathers. While most thinking persons will acknowledge that young men need real fathers, and that all teenaged young men occasionally need a father's strong hand to keep them on the straight and narrow - this issue of a father's discipline and guidance is only part of the equation.
For young men living in Jamaican Matriarchal families, the message of the matriarchal culture is... "Fathers are not needed in a family. Fathers do not support familes. You will never be the head of a family. You are little more than a biological donor - like your father before you."
No father, no future purpose, no future family, no manhood to be found in marriage or family.
This powerful message of hopelessness and lack of core male purpose in life is directed at Jamaican-Canadian young men: who run wild with no hope and no future.
Could it be that the typical Jamaican Matriarchal family structure is a root cause of the Jamaican violence on Toronto streets?
Three men trying to steal fuel from a New Zealand farm Monday ended up setting fire to their own car.Police said the trio had siphoned diesel into a petrol-driven vehicle. When their car would not start, they examined the fuel pipe using a cigarette lighter.
One click, a boom and the car burst into flames.
We were never that stupid. Ever. Tell us you weren't that dumb. Please.
Ulema in Saudia Arabia have issued a fatwa (religious decree) declaring football [soccer] an un-Islamic sport, and have urged the youth to quit it immediately, BBC radio reported on Saturday.We can only imagine how the clerics might define 'other constructive activities.' In conjunction with the word 'Jihadi, the adjective 'BOOM' comes to mind.
According to the report, the clerics urged the youth to indulge in jihad and other constructive activities that could help the Muslim ummah, the radio reported. The ulema argued that football wastes a lot of time and the participants wear shorts, which they said was an un-Islamic dress, the radio reported.
Irina Dzagoyeva testified that her sister was forced to wash blood off a floor.The trial had to be delayed as the child witness wept.
A 10-year-old boy testified Thursday, August 25th in the trial of the one lone terrorist to be captured alive after the siege in Beslan. One of the female terrorists ... told us that if she found a phone on anyone, that person would be killed and three more people near him or her would be killed too.
A 17-year-old girl testified that the hostage takers gave a bucket of water to one boy and told him to give it only to the children. They said that if any adult drank the water, they would shoot the boy.
Malik Kalchakeyev, 14, speaking slowly and in great detail, told of how the schoolchildren and their parents were herded into the school's gym, how the attackers stopped providing water and how they taunted the exhausted hostages, often forcing them to stand and sit quickly in the hot, crowded gym.
"On the second day, we were all very thirsty. Women told us, the boys, to pee into plastic bottles so that the children could then drink our pee," the boy said, bursting into tears. "I peed into a bottle, and small children -- even babies -- drank it."
Ms. Sheehan is a liberal nut case who needs to be put in her place.I know these are strong words to use against a “grieving mother”, but the time for grief is over. Ms. Sheehan’s own hateful words ended her grievance.
...She has also started protesting the war in Iraq and has since become the poster child for the anti-war wackos who are calling for the complete withdrawal of troops from Iraq...
I think it is time for our gloves to come off. Many columnists around the country have “tip-toed” around the Sheehan controversy because they have respected the loss of her son. But now Ms. Sheehan is showing her true colors: Liberal activist, not loving mother. I think it is time to fight back.
Ms. Sheehan and other appeasers around the world provide the fuel that feeds the fire of terrorism. If not for this fuel, terrorists would realize that they do not have a chance to sway the minds of people and would end the bombing. Terrorists are not stupid, they understand that bombing innocent civilians will not change the minds of the strong, but will break the will of the weak. So they attack the weak and the weak fold...
Unfortunately her son’s good name will soon go down in history as the son of a wacko liberal instead of a war hero.
Read it all here. Truth really is stranger than fiction.
"The Israeli pullout should be complete and exclude any Israeli security role, especially on the Palestinian-Israeli border. Ending the occupation and establishing a Palestinian state will create a new reality on the ground that will leave no room for Israeli intervention in Palestinian relations with the Arab world."In other words, Israel should not protect itself- even along her own borders. To do so might impede other suicide bombers- clearly an unacceptable situation for the Palestinians.
Good night, America how are you?
Don't you know me I'm your native son,
I'm the train they call The City of New Orleans,
I'll be gone five hundred miles when the day is done.
For years the Democrats have been telling themselves "it's the economy, stupid." Yet consistently for dozens of years millions of middle income Americans have voted against their own economic interests to support Republicans who have tapped a deeper set of needs…You may agree or disagree with Rabbi Lerner, but in fact, he raises many very valid points. In fact, no one can argue or deny the truth of much of what Rabbi Lerner says. Given the right focus and direction, as we once said, liberal values can and will appeal to many. It would be a mistake to dismiss Rabbi Lerner because of his political affiliations. We certainly do not always agree with Rabbi Lerner, but more than one of his ideas contain more than a kernel of truth.
Tens of millions of Americans feel betrayed by a society that seems to place materialism and selfishness above moral values. They know that "looking out for number one" has become the common sense of our society, but they want a life that is about something more --- a framework of meaning and purpose to their lives that would transcend the grasping and narcissism that surrounds them. Sure, they will admit that they have material needs, and that they worry about adequate health care, stability in employment, and enough money to give their kids a college education. But even more deeply they want their lives to have meaning --- and they respond to candidates who seem to care about values and some sense of transcendent purpose...
Yet to move in this direction, many Democrats would have to give up their attachment to a core belief: that those who voted for Bush are fundamentally stupid or evil. Its time they got over that elitist self righteousness and developed strategies that could affirm their common humanity with those who voted for the Right. Teaching themselves to see the good in the rest of the American public would be a critical first step in liberals and progressives learning how to teach the rest of American society how to see that same goodness in the rest of the people on this planet. It is this spiritual lesson --- that our own well-being depends on the well-being of everyone else on the planet and on the well-being of the earth- a lesson rooted deeply in the spiritual wisdom of virtually every religion on the planet, that could be the center of a revived Democratic party. Yet to take that seriously, the Democrats are going to have to get over the false and demeaning perception that the Americans who voted for Bush could never be moved to care about the well being of anyone but themselves. That transformation in the Democrats would make them into serious contenders.
…liberals, trapped in a long-standing disdain for religion and tone-deaf to the spiritual needs that underlie the move to the Right, have been unable to engage these voters in a serious dialogue… the liberal world has developed such a knee-jerk hostility to religion that it has both marginalized those many people on the Left who actually do have spiritual yearnings and simultaneously refused to acknowledge that many who move to the Right have legitimate complaints about the ethos of selfishness in American life…
…The hostility of the Left to spirituality is so deep, in fact, that when they hear us in Tikkun talking this way they often can't even hear what we are saying ---- so they systematically mis-hear it and say that we are calling for the Left to take up the politics of the Right…Read Michael Lerner’s entire article here.
.. Americans rejected the hedonism of Woodstock, in which individual choice and uninhibited, personal expression trumped all. Hollywood came to epitomize for them this narcissism and repudiation of conventional values. They were tired of the new counterculture of radical change, seeing in the New Left contempt for middle America and its values, reflected in fathers abandoning their families, the delegitimization of the sanctity of marriage, raising children without clear moral guideposts â all of which, in their minds, led to increased criminality, drug abuse,people being recast as society's victims rather than accepting responsibility for their own actions. They yearned to restore the authority of public institutions and to remove some of the violence and sexuality in TV programs, records, and computer games, whose content they ascribed to the liberals who write the screenplays for TV and movies.As with Michael Lerner, you may not agree with Zuckerman's politics, but there is also a more than a kernel of truth in his remarks.
Against this backdrop, the Democratic Party saw its leadership shifting away from its working-class and middle-class roots, away from moral traditionalists, especially families that go to church, away from those who live in unfashionable tract suburbs and even in working-class neighborhoods. The Democratic Party was increasingly identifying more with the rising elites of the information and entertainment age - what commentator Joel Kotkin calls the"hip-ocracy" of well-educated people, high-tech tycoons, Hollywood moguls and celebrities, Wall Street financiers, and an academic world of people with graduate degrees - a new social elite, much more liberal than the country at large. Bill Clinton's "I feel your pain" and "It's the economy, stupid!" reflected the need to reconnect with the traditional Democratic middle-class constituencies, but then he exacerbated the concern over moral values and family issues with his personal behavior. The entire article can be found here.
"The U.S. and Israel are democracies, their governments are elected by their people -- thus it is legitimate to attack their people."Got it? Think you can connect the dots? Do you get it yet? No? OK, we'll explain further. Your new friends support and apologize for people who would rape your sister and your mother because they were dressed ‘provocatively,’ so it was their fault. Your new friends support people that would kill every gay and lesbian you know. Of course, they would kill every Jew, too, but you don’t care about that. After all, you have yet to denounce David Duke (he hates blacks, too, but since he hates Jews, you’ll give him a pass) and Stormfront, the Aryan Nations group that are headed down to stand shoulder to shoulder with you. Like you, they are only too happy to cast America and the Jews (do you really believe calling them Zionists fools anyone?) as the great evil forces in the world today. Maybe you can get your picture taken carrying an Adolph Hitler placard, or maybe you can wear a swastika armband. Don’t look so hurt. David Duke and Stormfront have made their intentions known for weeks. If you wanted to distance yourselves from them, you would have done so already.
The bird flu mortality rate of 50 percent is the highest of any influenza virus in history. Indiana’s best-case scenario is a 15 percent “attack rate,” meaning about 15 percent of the population would be infected with avian influenza, said Dr. Charlene Graves, medical director of the Indiana State Department of Health immunization program and co-chair of the Pandemic Influenza Plan committee.But U.S. and international health experts suggest if human-to-human transmission occurs, the attack rate will be more in the 30 percent to 35 percent rate. In Indiana, at the 15 percent attack rate there would be 4,894 hospital admissions on the lower end to more than 16,000 on the higher end, with 1,400 to 4,000 deaths, according to the state preparedness plan.
But at the 35 percent attack rate, hospitalizations would range from 11,420 to nearly 40,000, with a death toll of 3,200 to 9,600.
But my concern is if there are enough ventilators,” McMahan said.
According to projections by the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, an average of 7.5 percent of admitted flu patients will need ventilators for breathing support for an average of 10 days per person.
This is bigger than anything we have ever seen in this country. Read it all here, and get better informed. You and your family need to know.
Now that we have your attention, read Maxed Out Mama. She has been following the bird flu for quite a while and she knows what she is talking about (unlike, well, you know). Scroll down, look through her archives and get better informed.
This is for real and this is serious.

